smokeswirls (smokeswirls) wrote in thequestionclub,
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What would you do in this situation?

My best friend recently divulged to me that she feels in her gut that her current boyfriend (of a little over a year) isn't "the one." She brought him home recently to attend a friend's wedding, and she said that something just didn't click. She can't see herself marrying him and him meshing well with her family, which is really important to her. However, she says she's happy enough with him right now and is having fun with him so why break up with him? She's also said that she's afraid of being single.

My concern is that he's head over heels for her, so is she leading him on by staying with him?
If you were her, would you just end the relationship?

EDIT: Forgot to include that her bf is NOT a US Citizen, so if he doesn't find a job that will grant him a work visa by February 2011, he has to go back to Europe. She's telling herself that if he ends up having to go back, THEN this will be a sign that she has to finally break up with him. This I think is just mean.
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