Feyna (caligogreywings) wrote in thequestionclub,

So there's this guy that I used to be friends with back in high school. He's a couple years younger than me, and married. I am also married. He's a firefighter, and he tends to work a lot of nights.

He talks to me a lot when I'm on facebook, and most of the time it's just friendly stuff, and he's clearly bored at work. But one night it got a little weird, just in the things he was saying, and how they were coming off. Even my husband thought it was really weird, and wanted me to cut off the conversation. He said that a lot of late night shifter firemen get really bored, and kinda horny. He also will pull this annoying BS where if I don't respond, he sends me a hurt message like, "You don't have to ignore me if you don't want to talk to me." I cannot deal with crap like that.

Thing is, I'm kinda shocked, but now when I get on facebook, I usually go offline, because I just... don't want to talk to him. He was a really sweet kid back in high school, and I just don't get this behavior.

Should I keep going offline, block him, or defriend him? It's gotten a bit awkward, and I don't know exactly how to say, "Dude you're kinda weirding me out" because he's still kind of sensitive, but my hubby is uncomfortable with it, and so am I.

Problem solved! Made an "ignore" list for facebook. Should come in handy.

New question: What do you do when you have a headache?
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