At what point do you be bluntly honest with a friend? I firmly believe, having seen it over and over again, that no one can truly love and value you until you love and value yourself. My best friend does not love or value herself, and every time we talk now it is about how much she hates that she doesn't have a boyfriend. I am tiiiiired of listening to her stories of one night stands and "friend cards" being pulled after. At what point, if ever, can I tell her to stop defining her self worth by boyfriends and fuck buddies and get back to therapy? She needs it and I can't give her any more advice. I've run out.
Also, I can't tell if this makes me a bad friend, so please let me know if I am.