I received a wedding invitation for my cousin's wedding next month. She's getting married halfway across the country, and to fly my us both out there for 3 days just can't happen. How long should I wait before I return the RSVP card? Do I need to wait at all? I received the notice 2 days ago.
ETA: Sorry for the confusion.. the RSVP is due in a month, the wedding is another 4-6 weeks after that.