surrendertovoid (surrendertovoid) wrote in thequestionclub,
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So...I started talking to this guy on OKCupid last week. I didn't really think much of him at first, but the more we messaged each other, the easier it became to talk to him.

Somehow, our conversation turned to sex, and they got rather dirty. I have never, ever sent dirty messages to a random person on the internet before. It was different, but I was really enjoying it. He said he had never sent dirty messages either and he was enjoying it, too.

We kept talking, both about sexual and non-sexual things, and in general, it seemed like we had a really good connection. When I said that to him, he agreed, and told me he would like to meet with me some point soon. I said I would like that.

Friday night, I sent him another message. It was an explicit one, but it wasn't worse than any of the other ones we've sent before. He usually responded to me within a half an hour, but he never sent a response. Four days later and still nothing from him.

I kind of want to send him another message, but I don't really know what to say. Saying something like, "Hey, haven't heard from you in a while, write me back when you get the chance," seems weird and out of place after the last message I sent him went into pretty extreme detail about how I want to tie him up and...um, do things to him.

I was thinking of sending him something like, "Hey...did my last message scare you off? That certainly wasn't my intention! I guess I got a little carried away. Listen, it kind of worries me that you haven't written me back. I hope you're OK. Message me when you get the chance." Does that sound OK? If not, what do you think I should say instead?

Help me Obi-Wan TQC. I really like this guy and I was really optimistic about him... :(
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