Somehow, our conversation turned to sex, and they got rather dirty. I have never, ever sent dirty messages to a random person on the internet before. It was different, but I was really enjoying it. He said he had never sent dirty messages either and he was enjoying it, too.
We kept talking, both about sexual and non-sexual things, and in general, it seemed like we had a really good connection. When I said that to him, he agreed, and told me he would like to meet with me some point soon. I said I would like that.
Friday night, I sent him another message. It was an explicit one, but it wasn't worse than any of the other ones we've sent before. He usually responded to me within a half an hour, but he never sent a response. Four days later and still nothing from him.
I kind of want to send him another message, but I don't really know what to say. Saying something like, "Hey, haven't heard from you in a while, write me back when you get the chance," seems weird and out of place after the last message I sent him went into pretty extreme detail about how I want to tie him up and...um, do things to him.
I was thinking of sending him something like, "Hey...did my last message scare you off? That certainly wasn't my intention! I guess I got a little carried away. Listen, it kind of worries me that you haven't written me back. I hope you're OK. Message me when you get the chance." Does that sound OK? If not, what do you think I should say instead?
Help me Obi-Wan TQC. I really like this guy and I was really optimistic about him... :(