Its not as bad, distance wise, as the screwy relationship.
He lives like 100 miles away, its a 2.5/3 hour ferry trip. which doesn't sound bad - except its in another country.
is this really stupid, should I even pursue this relationship? I mean, realistically, how often would we be able to see each other
seriously, im kinda confused. I like the guy, and he likes me, but IDK if a relationship will be impossible to maintain.