31 is passive aggressive. She constantly leaves spiteful little notes when she wants something done. While I was gone over Christmas, she went in my room and cleaned. I left it a bit of a mess, which is very unusual for me, as she knows. So I told her it was all fine, but asked her to please not go in my room again without my permission. Yesterday she left me a note telling me to vacuum my room.
Is it okay for me to leave her a passive aggressive note back telling her: "Hey, thanks for the reminder, but I already vacuumed my room. I can do it again if you want."? If not, what should I do/say?
Keep in mind that, while I want to move, it is frigid winter, my family doesn't live in the area, and I will probably not be able to move for another 2 months. I do not have a lease.
tl;dr - My housemate is a bitch, should I be a bitch back? Or should I be nice because 1) I have to live here with her for two months, and 2) she owns the fucking house. HELP.