surrendertovoid (surrendertovoid) wrote in thequestionclub,

I went on a few dates with this really cute guy a couple months ago. He worked at my favorite book shop. I really liked him, but some really bad shit was happening in my life (my dad got laid off, my brother suddenly got really sick, I had recently been fired, and a bunch of other crap) so I kind of fell off the face of the earth after our third date.

Everything has finally started to settle down, so I decided to give him a call. I got his voicemail, so I left a message apologizing for disappearing for a while and asked if he wanted to get together for lunch sometime.

He never responded. I was bummed.

This past Monday, about two weeks after I called him, I decided to go to the bookstore where he worked. He saw me the second I stepped into the store, and the best way I can explain the look on his face was like :O. Like...he couldn't believe I was standing there.

So he immediately came up to me and gave me a hug and said, "Oh my god, I can't believe you're here! I got your message, but I lost your phone number so I couldn't call you back! I'm so glad you came in!"

We chatted for a while, until his boss told him to get back to work. I started browsing books, and about ten minutes later, he  found me and we started talking until his boss got on his case again.

There were a few points while I was shopping where I could see him staring at me out of the corner of my eye, and when I would look at him, he'd turn all red and look away.

I finally went up to his cash register to buy this little cheap-o three dollar book and when I handed it to him, he pushed it back at me and said, "Don't worry about it."

So I thanked him profusely and gave him a big hug, and asked if he was doing anything on Thursday night. He said he wasn't sure, but he said he would call me the next day (Tuesday).

Well, it's now Wednesday night and he still hasn't contacted me.

...didn't it seem like he was into me? I thought it seemed like he was into me. We were all flirty and touchy and stuff.

Should I call/text him? Would that seem desperate or pushy or anything?

Help me, TQC. This guy is super cute and I really need to get laid. :(
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