elevatorshaft (elevatorshaft) wrote in thequestionclub,
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I want to, but..

My boyfriend doesn't want to do anything for Valentine's Day because he "dislikes" Valentine's Day. We aren't a new couple (we've been together on and off for 4 years). What am I supposed to make of this? What would you do if you were (or are) in my position?

** I should have elaborated a bit more. We have celebrated two V-Days together before in the past, both times with hotel and dinner, and he has never mentioned to me during all the years I've known him that he dislikes this holiday. I don't need a hotel and I don't need a fancy dinner. I just want SOMETHING, I don't care if it's flowers or a card. Recent actions and comments of his have lead me to make the assumption that he's become selfish and irresponsible, and only wants to spend his money on clothing and other things he finds more important than food and gas for his car. He knows this means a lot to me, but he doesn't seem to care that I'm hurt by this. I've almost lost all desire to do anything because I know it'll be killing him to spend money on me that day when he could have used it on himself. I just don't know what to do anymore.
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