OR would your mindset be more of the following?:
I'm young and should date around. If things are meant to be, maybe we'll be able to get together again in the future.
2. Say that you book your Thanksgiving and Christmas flights home, and then 2 weeks later, you get a full-time job. These flights are non-refundable. I would be missing a total of 8 work days. Do you think my bosses grant me these days off because I booked BEFORE the job? Soooo stressed out about this. I need to talk to them about this soon.