So let's say you've been dating someone for a while and you genuinely like this person. At one point, they invite you back to their apartment. Upon entering, you notice that they have shelves and shelves filled with books. Upon closer inspection, they're all either romance novels, volumes of love poetry, or relationship self-help books.
Would you find this romantic, concerning, or something else?
What if the person you're dating then offered to wash your hair in rainwater? Romantic, concerning, or something else?
If you find this concerning, what would you do next?