Womb (kill_inhibition) wrote in thequestionclub,


About an hour ago a friend from Jr. High called me (we haven't spoken in about 7 months as we're both busy with babies) and asked if I wanted to hang out. I said 'Sure, I have no plans and can pick you up'. She then told me that we were going to be extras in a TV show and started explaining it and what I should wear and things like that. I agreed to it as she bombarded me with information. 

Now that we're not talking and I've thought it over I really don't want to do it. It's 12 hours in a soggy field in a dress with bugs. She's under the impression that I'll go but I'm pretty sure she only wanted to "hang out" because she needs a ride there/back. We are friends and we do hang out on occasion when we're able to but she is clearly using me in this situation.

What should I do?! I wouldn't mind seeing her and chatting for a while and I like driving so I'd be okay with dropping her off and even picking her up. Is this acceptable? Even though I'm being used I didn't say 'no' so I kind of feel bad about not wanting to be an extra. 
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