theaftercath (theaftercath) wrote in thequestionclub,

 Hey TQC!

My boyfriend and I have been together 4.5 years, and in the last week we've had two long, horrible conversations where essentially he feels like he "thinks we should break up, but doesn't want to break up with me".

I keep asking him to give us time (we've been long-distance for a year, he's moving home next week) but part of me wonders if I'm just being a jerk by selfishly not letting him break up with me.

So am I being a selfish jerk? Or am I, as I see it, helping him avoid doing something rash because his whole life is confusing right now?

Serious answers a bonus. Non-serious ones to make me smile also nice.
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