TQC, if you live with your parents (and you're both adults), how do you split up the household work? My dad is awful about not picking up/sorting through his mail, and I don't want to sort it and put something in the trash that doesn't belong. But it's kind of overwhelming and I just want to see the kitchen table again. And it's just my dad and me, so "getting Mom to do it/talk to him" isn't an option. Note: he also works all the time, so it's easy for things to just kind of pile up, and I feel really weird about being a nag about it (that whole housewife/daughter boundary line).