a81688 (a81688) wrote in thequestionclub,
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Decide my life!!!!

Ahhh. I know too many people will say TLDR. But here goes!

My husband is in the military. Stationed in Camp Lejuene, NC. He's been gone  since January 2009. And I only got to see him one weekend every 3-4 months. The whole time I was living in Houston Texas with our son. I had a nice apartment, a great job, and was going to school part time.

So we got married November 28. And ever since he has been stuggling to find us a home close to his base.
And now that I am 6 months pregnant we talked over it last week and decided that maybe it was best for me to find an apartment here. But NOW he just got a call from  a mobile home place saying they will have a home ready to move in by this weekend!!

SOOOO,,, should I move??? I have been trying to think of all the pros and cons. But its pretty much equal. =( He's getting deployed sometime in September for 7-8 months. And this is the last chance I have to spend more time with him and for my son to be with his father. I also really want him to be around when our daughter is born (sometime late June). Oh yeah he is also going to be gone alot for training meaning he will be gone atleast 2 weeks every month. I just want to make the right choice. And I only have a few days to decide!

SHOULD I STAY OR SHOULD I GO??

Also, does anyone else here have Tricare? How much of a hard time will it be for me to change regions and get a new OBGYN?

For those that just dont care, what has been the biggest move you've ever made? Across town? Across the country?..
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