Let's say you eloped, completely alone, no one you knew was at the wedding, no gifts, no honeymoon etc.. Several years later you want a real wedding with a dress and reception and stuff like that. Your family and friends are super excited about this and want to attend and help out.
-Should this be called a wedding? 2nd wedding? Vow renewal? -Is it tacky to suggest a donation towards a honeymoon as a gift? Or even expect a gift, since they're already married and have their home set up, etc.?