Holly (lunarcapricorn) wrote in thequestionclub,
Holly
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How soon into your relationship did you and your SO start discussing things like marriage, moving in together and having kids?

* by "discussing" I simply mean talking about it as if it will happen in the future - not actually planning it by picking a date or anything.



I'm three months into my relationship with my boyfriend and we've already discussed all these things. I know he wants children eventually, he knows he wants to marry me in about two or three years, and he mentions me moving in with him quite often. He even buys things I like so that "when I move in" I'll like his house.

My mum thinks it's way too early to be discussing these things. "You don't even know him thoroughly yet!" I was just wondering if dreaming about the future like this is normal, and how early other people started discussing it.
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