If your significant other was playing with a sex toy with a member of the opposite sex (who is a friend of the SO), would you be bothered and/or annoyed? What if he/she didn't tell you about it, but you heard from a mutual friend who was there when it happened? Would it matter what kind of sex toy? What if the playing involved your SO controlling an object that was inserted/directly touching the friend's genitals?
There is a girl that I am friends with only because my boyfriend is her friend. I like her ok, she's fun to hang out with, but she plays these stupid power games and she thinks of no one but herself. So I consider her a mere acquaintance. My boyfriend considers her a close friend. He goes to school in another state, where she is. Now, I never for a moment worry that the two of them are romantically involved, for several reasons. Not the least of which being that she is in a long-term relationship with my boyfriend's best friend, who also attends that same school.
Anyway, I hear from this girl that she and her boyfriend were playing with one of those sex toys. It's the vibrating thing that the girl inserts into her vagina and is wirelessly controlled by a gadget that looks like a garage door opener. She had it in while she and her boyfriend were hanging out in the living room of the apartment that the two boys (mine and hers) share. Well, her boyfriend was getting a real kick out of pushing the button at random times and the thingee vibrates, which is needless to say incredibly awesome for the girl. So they are playing with that, and my boyfriend comes home. He wonders why the girl is randomly letting out little "eeps" and "ooohs" so the guy shows my boyfriend the toy, and my boyfriend immediately joins in, pushing the button at random times and getting a real kick out of making the girl squeal.
I still can't decide if I'm annoyed by this or if I'm going to just let it go. This is the kind of thing she tells me for the sole purpose of getting me riled up, and also to prove that she is more involved in my boyfriend's life than I am, since I live in another state and haven't known him as long as she has. While I don't want to rise to her challenge by getting all upset, there's a part of me that is more than a little bothered by the fact that my boyfriend was indirectly stimulating his friend's genitals and really enjoying doing it. :o( So I can't decide how I feel. I was just wondering how others would feel in the same situation. :o)