2. Person A thinks person B stole from her. Do you think it hurts more to not know if your friend stole from you, or to be the friend accused of stealing? (regardless of whether it happened.)
3. Do you think it hurts more to find out one day your partner of five years had been cheating on you constantly for your entire relationship, or to be with somebody who made you feel everyday like you weren't good enough for them?
4. Do you think it hurts more to find out that your mom hates you or that your daughter hates you?