Kimber (chesterismyhero) wrote in thequestionclub,


TQC, am I paranoid? Or do I have the right to think something is up? If I'm not paranoid, what should I do?

This came up the other night in uberash's thread. I've spent the last couple of days trying to figure out what to do/how to go about it.

Long story short, I was using the husband's phone to get my contact numbers after my phone died and I happened upon a number of a girl that I went to school with. The husband was not friends with her (when we were in school) and she lived across from us for like 4 months. I thought he didn't really talk to her, but I guess I was wrong about that.

Anywho...I checked the number history and I found out that he's been calling her on and off. 6 calls went back and forth on one day alone.

He has a habit of deleting text messages and his call log. He also has a habit of developing crushes on female friends of mine.

I confronted him about it and he said I was being paranoid. I mentioned the crush thing and he didn't deny it.

It is completely aggravating and I don't know what I should do. He's acting like I don't have any reason to be upset and he's acting like nothing happened. Well, I take that back. He's avoiding the subject, but being extra helpful around the house...which is something he does when he knows he's done something wrong and he's trying to get back on my good side.

So..wwyd, TQC? I've thought about asking him to move out for awhile, but I don't know if that will help the situation at all. :/

And if you don't care about my drama.....what's your favorite Halloween candy? What about regular every day candy?
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