Carly (carllyy) wrote in thequestionclub,

Am I being unreasonable?

So I'd like some input to see if I'm being completely unreasonable.

I am in a long distance relationship and have been for the past five years. I've recently graduated university and have a new job. I work 1-830pm Mon-Thurs and Sat 9-4. The only time I can see my boyfriend is Saturday night/Sunday. I have to go there because he can't come here for various reasons. This doesn't bother me, in fact I prefer it.

In any case a good friend who works insane hours at Starbucks asked me about doing "something" this weekend. I said I was available all day friday but I didn't know about the rest. She mentioned next weekend and I said I wasn't sure. Keep in mind, something generally means dinner out or something, nothing extravagant that couldn't be done on a different day. I'm also home and off every friday and friday night.

So am I being unreasonable by being unwilling to stay home the one day a week I'm able to see my boyfriend? Should I just tell her that I don't want to or should I make something up to explain why I'm not staying home?
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