Chocokid (chocokid) wrote in thequestionclub,
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Relationships, blah.

Sorry for two posts in one night, but this one just came up.

My best friend (and by best I mean we spend every free, waking moment together) met this boy a few weeks ago and they really like each other. To make a long story short, this boy seems to be a little pissed off that I am always with my friend because he wants to just hang out with her and not me (which is fine and perfectly understandable--what's not is his getting angry at me). Why can't he make plans a day in advance to hang out with just her then?

My friend keeps asking me whether I like him or not (you know, does he pass the best friend test type of thing) and I don't know what to tell her because while I do think he's a neat person, I also think part of him is pretty asshole-ish. For instance, I was at my friend's last night and he called her and they talked for a couple of minutes, but then my friend said she had to go because I was over. He obviously didn't care because he kept her on the phone for another 30 minutes.

I know this doesn't sound so bad but I just don't like it. What do I tell her? I don't want to ruin anything she could have with this boy, because I know she likes him. But at the same time I don't want to lie to her because deep down I really don't like him so much. She even says he makes "stupid comments" about me and she doesn't really like it either. I just have this knawing intuition about him that isn't so positive. What do you think? Any comments on the situation? I hate relationship dilemmas.
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