theaftercath (theaftercath) wrote in thequestionclub,
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UPDATE:  I said "hey, I really need to start getting ready for work. It's been nice catching up with you, I hope things work out. Talk to you later." and signed the fuck out. She sent me 3 more rambling messages ("i just need to know u no" "i give so much of myself i've never been meen to anyone" and "all i do is help people") before my cursor made its way to close the tab.

New question, TQC: I'm feeling pretty shitty about abandoning her, should I? Was there anything else I could do?


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A girl I talked to maybe twice in high school randomly facebook chatted me, and went from 0-crazy in a matter of minutes.

How do I get out of the conversation with this nutjob? She seems desperately lonely, but really, really batshit.

EDIT: the conversation is really, really long, but her end goes like this:

"Can I ask u for advice? I really like this guy but I think my roommate is trying to date him do u think that's right? Do you think they're meant to be? I mean we were shopping and he smiled at us and was nice to me and I asked for his number and he said yes. We went on a date and it was cool until he tried to take my pants off and I said no but he said its cool. But now my roommate is trying to get with him. Should she? Do u think they'll end up? I can't ask her about it because she's mad at me. I used to have a stalking problem but now I'm on medicine and i can stop thinking about guys if i knew there was no chance do u think there's a chance? I NEED TO KNOW. WHY IS SHE DOING THIS? DO U THINK THEY'LL END UP???"

...I don't know what to say or how to get out of it...
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