tcq, i recently was being led on by a stupid boy. i called his bluff and he admitted to it. i am irked to have wasted the last month on his butt. i didn't tell said boy how upset i am about it. i am contemplating sending an email calling him out on being such an ass (about this and other things). i know i will feel better in the end if i send it, but i'm not usually such a bitch.