my friend just came over and threw a surprise playdate between our sons. he goes to daycare whereas my son stays with me, and that in itself had me a little on edge because i don't know what kind of place her daycare is and if its clean. to make matters worse she walked on my carpet with her boots (there's snow outside- thus there's also street salt on her shoes) and i picked up a piece of her sons poop off the carpet with my HANDS! (i wasn't quite sure it was poop until my whole living room started to smell) as soon as she left, i had the vacuum out in thirty seconds. i mopped, washed my sons face and hands, and got on the floor with a toothbrush and some disinfectant to clean the 'poop spot.' all the while, however, i was afraid she had left something behind and would soon be back to get it only to hear the sound of the vacuum cleaner/see me with a mop in my hands/etc.
if you were her, would that bother you? would it bother you if you knew that i had found poop on the floor?
she didn't come back, i was just wondering if this would bother some people. i don't think it would bother me if someone did that after my son was at their house. i don't take chances when it comes to my son.