So my fiance has this ex-girlfriend. I've met her, as we went over to see her new house, but I pretty much immediately disliked her because she left me to babysit her kids while she showed my SO her new house for like an hour, which, even though I knew nothing went down, seemed fairly inconsiderate to me. Recently she called his house to "say hi to his mom," after who knows how many years, and when his mom asked how she was, she immediately started complaining about her husband and how she wasn't happy with him, etc. etc. Now I come to find out that she works in the same building as my SO's new job, and she's started calling for him here. I know my SO isn't boning her, and I know I'm super insecure, but:
Am I totally batshit insane and crazy jealous to be upset about this? Or am I right in thinking that this woman is kind of shady in that she has suddenly and forcefully reappeared into my SOs life out of the blue?
And I apologize for spamming TQC with my life's problems today, bbs.