Now I am wondering, since I will probably be chipping in to buy her meal (plus mine) and at LEAST two rounds at the bar (since when does the birthday girl pay for her own booze? I don't think so!) Am I obligated to get her a gift?
I am not a cheap ass or anything, but I am watching my budget.
Generally in my group of friends gifts aren't that big of a deal - but it's her 21st.