cold as ice cream but still as sweet (rebel_waltz) wrote in thequestionclub,
cold as ice cream but still as sweet

me and my friend ran into a friend of ours we haven't seen since high school ended 4 1/2 years ago tonight! he's working at The Apple Store. it was awesome. we talked with him for, i dunno, 10 minutes or so, and then we left.

anyway, i really want to hang out with him but i'm not sure how to go about asking him. i'm about the most anxious person i know and so i never know how to initiate these things.

should i just ask him on his facebook wall? should i see if the number of his i have still works despite the fact that i haven't called him in over 3 years?

the thing that's tripping me up is when i hang out with new people or people i haven't seen in a long time and it's just the two of us, i can't figure out what we should do and i'm afraid things won't go well and i won't be entertaining enough. i also don't have a car and i'm always worried that's going to cause annoyance for people. like, i don't expect them to drive us anywhere, i'm perfectly fine with the bus. but i feel like since i'm initiating the hangout i have to take care of stuff like transportation and i can't.

is anyone else like this?
am i putting too much pressure on myself?
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