1) How long/many dates do you go on before you "have the talk"?
2) What is a non-spastic way of bringing this up? Just up front ("Are you seeing anyone else?" or subtly?)
3) How long do you wait before sexing it up with a new person? I've always been easy in the past, but here it is a monh later and we've barely brushed second base! We've talked about sex, but haven't gotten there yet. But I have the feeling that when we do, it's going tobe a kick ass good time! I'm prety sure date #5- next weekend- will take care of this one. So I guess my answer to this one would be "5 dates, or just over a month)
(And in case any one remembers/cares. yes, this is the guy I went bowling with last month. I wore jeans, and he thought I looked hot- it's a relief, really- I don't feel the need to look super put together all the time, since I didn't set the bar super high the first time)