Knight of Mars, Beater of Ass. (dazeydevyne) wrote in thequestionclub,
Knight of Mars, Beater of Ass.

Stupid lameass dating question

OK, so you're dating someone new.  4 dates, about a month all together.  You talk every couple days, and are pretty open with each other.  However, they seem to have a lot of friends of the opposite sex.  Since you're not exclusive, it's sort of weird to ask if they're girl friends, or dates.  But you ant to be with just this person, and it seems like they are serious about you. 


1) How long/many dates do you go on before you "have the talk"?
2) What is a non-spastic way of bringing this up?  Just up front ("Are you seeing anyone else?" or subtly?)
3) How long do you wait before sexing it up with a new person?  I've always been easy in the past, but here it is a monh later and we've barely brushed second base!  We've talked about sex, but haven't gotten there yet.  But I have the feeling that when we do, it's going tobe a kick ass good time!  I'm prety sure date #5- next weekend- will take care of this one.  So I guess my answer to this one would be "5 dates, or just over a month)

(And in case any one remembers/cares. yes, this is the guy I went bowling with last month.  I wore jeans, and he thought I looked hot- it's a relief, really- I don't feel the need to look super put together all the time, since I didn't set the bar super high the first time)
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