Kim (nanaminako) wrote in thequestionclub,

how do you tell someone who gets very butthurt easily, and guilt trips, that you might not be able to or don't want to hang out?

(i.e. they're heavy on the guilt trips, whining, sounding and being upset/brooding for a while about things like not hanging out....and most other things)

i know honesty is the best policy, which eventually would come out with "i can't/don't want to have out today" during a conversation but what's the best way to go about it without receiving shitloads of guilt trips and being nice about it?

i'm almost too afraid to call because i know they'll rip me a new one over something like hanging out, even though there were no set-in-stone plans for something to do today.

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