Sarah Hope (painless_murder) wrote in thequestionclub,
Sarah Hope

Stalkers and comedians...

Here is some background info on my stalker situation. It's under the cut, if you don't care to read.

Okay, it all started back in seventh grade. {I graduated high school in 2007.} My brother had a friend, who we'll call J. J was really cool, and started coming over to my house. J was about four years older than me, and yes, I did have a bit of a crush on him.  When J found out my age, he started bringing over his brother, who we'll call K. I didn't really like K all that much, but I was nice to him, and kind of had a friendship with him. It was the type of ordeal where I would try to avoid him, but if I couldn't I'd be his friend. See, my family knew his family. Okay, well in 8th grade, I found out he was like in love with me. I acted normal around him, like I didn't know what was up. I didn't want to bring it up, because I didn't want to be his girlfriend, and I didn't want to have to say no. My mom and his mom were really good friends, so I was pretty much forced to take his phone calls, and talk to him when I saw him anywhere. J moved away, and got a family in the past few years. I didn't have contact with J or K for three or four years. If I saw K I would say hi, and maybe catch up for a minute or two, but it never went past the occasional Walmart bump-in.
Starting back in October, K started coming over to my house. I was nice to him, but I usually would make an excuse to get away. My boyfriend, who I have been dating for almost three years now, would usually show up just in time, to make K go away. My boyfriend was never mean or weird, but he knew K was pretty much a bother to me. For the past two months, K has been showing up everyday at my house. He knows exactly when I get home from work. He'll show up as soon as I pull up to my house, and be like, " Hey! I was just passing by, and saw you? What's up?" It's really retarded. In the past week, K has been showing up everywhere I go. When I go to the tanning place, he shows up, when I go to get gas, he shows up, and when I walk my dog, he's there. It's so creepy. I think he's stalking me. Here recently, he's gotten on a kick, where he likes to talk crap about my boyfriend. I told me boyfriend, and he thought it was hilarious, because K is not a cute guy at all, and is, for sure, not as strong as my boyfriend. I told him to stop talking about him, but he keeps it up. The guy is driving me crazy. 
For the past week, I've had the stomach flu. He came over, and when my brother told him I was sick. He got really mad and kicked our trash can over. Even my parents are starting to wonder what his deal is.

My question to you, TQC, is what do I do to keep K from coming over, and stalking me? I feel sorry for the guy, but I don't want to deal with him.

For anybody who didn't read this, 

1. Have you ever been to a comedy show?
a. If so who?
b. If not, who is your favorite stand up comedian?

2. What should I wear to a comedy show? I'm going to one Friday night.

EDIT: I told him not to come over everyday, but he just got really mad, and started cussing. But, the next day he was back over.
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