Scarlett O'Hara (smartaleckstef) wrote in thequestionclub,
Scarlett O'Hara

So I know this post will be controversial but I am just going to throw it out there:

I've noticed a lot of young married TQC members, and I have to ask why anyone would want to get married or even have a kid before they hit 22?
Am I the only one who feels that it's a tad early, before you're at least 25?
And of course to each their own, but if you did choose to get married early, why exactly? (Aren't you afraid something better might come along since you haven't had much experience?)

Where I live (in the city) it's a minority who are getting married so early and I don't know anyone personally who is even thinking about marriage, and I'm 24.
I just feel like marriage is different now because people live to be 80, so it's not the same thing, and that people should wait a little. On top of the fact that divorce rates for people who marry early in life are sky-high.
(A couple I know of that got married last year is already separated.)

I just feel like it's common sense to wait.
It's like you don't get any time to be free.

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