let's say you have a SO who works, a LOT. sometimes up to 14 hours a day. because of this, you only speak on the phone to them about once a week and online for maybe 30 minutes a day. let's say this SO lives a few towns away from you, and the talking part of your relationship is more important than if they lived right down the street.
after what point/what amount of time would you start losing your patience? would you confront your SO that it's difficult to have a relationship with someone who's never around? or would you deal with the situation forever, and consider yourself to be a greedy selfish douchebag?
srs & non srs answers are welcome, though I prefer srs.