TQC, have you ever heard of such a thing? what is your opinion on this? I think it's total bullshit. cheating is cheating.
edit: I am not losing sleep over this issue. I just want other people's opinions. if they were so ok with what most people consider "cheating", why not with both sexes? if they're okay with having sex with others, great! that's their decision.. but I think it's silly to say "yeah you can only have sex with this or this person, and I won't consider it cheating. yet if you do the exact same sexual act with THIS person, I'll dump you". maybe I just don't get it.