The fear you won't fall. (dennings) wrote in thequestionclub,
The fear you won't fall.

Valentines Day is now a little over two weeks away, what do you have planned? and perhaps you could give me some advice/suggestions...

I've been seeing a guy for the past month, but only officially for 2 and a half weeks. It's very recent and I'm unsure as to what is appropriate. He wants to celebrate. He's already told me to be excited and asked me when I want to celebrate (the weekend before or after) I can tell by certain things he's asking me that he's going to be getting me something. Now I'm not sure what to do. I was thinking I'd bake him cupcakes and since he's a bit of a nerd (he happily admits it) I would make logos of his favourite games and put them on as decoration, then have one singular cupcake say "Happy Valentines Day", along with a homemade card. Is that enough? I'm thinking like...what if he buys me something and then sees my homemade things and thinks what the hell (although I don't think he will) I'm just nervous since this is the first time I've really celebrated this holiday...or wanted to. Plus, it's very recent and I don't want to go overboard, but I also don't want to seem like I don't care. I'm debating if I should buy him something also...something small but something that I know he would like. But this seems like it could be getting too much! Ah, help please. What are you doing for your significant other?

(Now if you think Valentines Day is a stupid, commerical holiday, fine. I don't disagree, I just need help :( )
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