ok. so. am i alone when i say it's weird for couples who just get married (they haven't been dating for 2+ years) & get pregnant right away (within months)? bcuz this came to my attention as being normal. i picture most newlyweds enjoying their time without children for a year or more, having fun, traveling, etc. i think i'm probably wording this q wrong, but whatever. i feel the same way about couples who get engaged within months of knowing each other. it makes me feel negative.
BACKSTORY: my sister-in-law & my brother got pregnant two months after they got married, had a kid last february, & now are expecting their second child this june. it just seems like they're rushing to me. she wants 4-5 kids yet she won't work & my brother right now isn't holding down a stable job.