For the heterosexuals/hetero-sympathisers:
When you're with someone new, which generally occurs first: oral sex, or sex?
Also, do you tend to start with a more run-of-the-mill position?
For gay dudes:
Do you tend to prefer one role over the other?
If so, do you attempt to convey that to a new partner beforehand, or just make it happen at the time?
Do you like to use toys, or do you prefer to use what you've got?
Do you feel that pubic hair is more or less of a concern due to your sexuality?
Also, has anyone ever met someone in the produce section? I just don't see it being that much of an advantage...