Creeping Over the Pond (iluq) wrote in thequestionclub,
Creeping Over the Pond
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At what point do I give up?

I have never been able to get a boyfriend. I've been actively trying for years, and it is painfully obvious that the opposite sex has no interest in me whatsoever. No ifs, ands or buts about it. Every guy I have ever tried to ask out to anything even so innocent as lunch has rejected me. I've given up even thinking about the possibility that I will get married, because that obviously isn't going to happen. But I'm also moderately certain that I will never get a boyfriend, period. The best I can hope for is random one-night stands. No one wants to commit to me because something about me is inherently unattractive.

At what point do I just give up? How come I try so hard and get absolutely nothing back? I am completely out of strategies. I just can't do this anymore. Every other girl I know goes from boyfriend to boyfriend seamlessly and I can't even get one guy to be interested in me for anything but pure sex. I don't want to be heartbroken anymore from being rejected over and over and over again. I just want to be content with being single for the rest of my life. How do I come to terms that I will never be in a relationship?

Answers that tell me that if I keep looking I will find someone will be blatantly ignored. I'm not that naive.
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