Do you insist on you and your potential new partner going and getting STD testing together before you have any sexual contact whatsoever? (This also means waiting anywhere from a few weeks to, say, a few months for the results to come back.)
Or would you take them at their word that they were STD-free, and have sex without them/you getting tested?
Has anyone here ever gotten an STD because of the latter?
If you had, would you admit it?