Okay - for those of you who don't understand the question; My sister gets on me in little ways saying that I'm on LJ too much, that I invest too much time on it - because I'm part of communities and I post and interact with my flist. She doesn't do that too much. While I love her - it really irritates me that she's critical of my life - I'm like - what is it to you? You do your thing and take your dog to the dog park everyday and dress him up and I'd never do that but I don't harp on her for it.
Does that make the question clearer?