emerging from my inner sanctimonium (mumblestutter) wrote in thequestionclub,
emerging from my inner sanctimonium
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To people who know anything about marriage

and all its accouterments and accessories...
I'm engaged and we're looking for an engagement ring. I won't justify the fact that I want a shiny diamond, I just do. But my betrothed wants to get one of those "wedding sets" with a engagement and wedding ring that go together on the same finger. He thinks if I only have the one ring people will think I'm still just engaged after 20 years. I use my fingers a lot, typing and playing geee-tarrr and in my experience, great, imposing rings (or two on one finger) can impede free finger movement, so I just want the one little, thin diamond ring. This may be a silly question, but does anyone know if it's done anymore to just have one ring? Will people think I'm only engaged after twenty years?

He seems to think I'll have a big herd of salivating men clawing at my thighs if I don't look married enough or something, which isn't true anyway.

Thanks for any advice on this, and sorry I went on and on.
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