||[Feb. 22nd, 2016|07:47 pm]
The Question Club
I don't know if I'm hormonal or what.|
Today, I moved all my furniture into a new apartment with the help of my father and a close friend.
My friend told me that I shouldn't let my father move furniture ever again, because he's getting old. I know my father is about 60 years old, but he's not I such bad shape he can't move furniture. He says my dad is losing it. He is kind of misunderstood, though, and always has been, and I got really defensive about those comments
I'm feeling really upset now. I haven't always been great to my dad but he's always been great to me, so I am trying to recognize that as an adult. But now I just feel like I burdened my father by having him help me move. I already have issues with people helping me with things and now I'm just completely upset like I didn't deserve any help. This has put a whole damper on my night
Is this normal, to feel guilty like this when it comes to your parents? How can I make my friend realize that he's really upsetting me ? I figure that now isn't the best time given that he helped me today