||[Nov. 22nd, 2014|04:28 am]
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My brother's wife's baby shower is the weekend after Christmas and I'll be out of town with my son and newborn whom my MIL has never met in order to attend it. There's a good chance this is the weekend MIL will be visiting but since she never tells us until last minute, I have no idea for certain.
The question is: Do I kindly inform hated MIL in advance (to be the better person), knowing if that is the weekend she is planning on visiting, there will be drama, whining, huffing and puffing for months to follow, or, do I let her maybe finally learn her lesson for not keeping us in the loop and just let her be disappointed at the last minute?