|When casual dating gets a little intense...
||[Sep. 24th, 2012|11:18 am]
The Question Club
So I'm the person who asked about online dating a few days ago and I'm back with another question. |
Say you've been on about 4 dates with various men and they all went really well. There is no reason you wouldn't see one of them again. You want a second date with all of them, they want a second date with you. And they all are just unique and interesting enough that each one has something to offer, be it a certain personality trait, hobby, compatibility level, etc.
It's assumed then, that eventually, maybe even within the next coming week, that as you go on your second or third date, things might get intimate. I'm pretty casual and open-minded when it comes to sex and isn't one to wait until love or even a committed relationship, but I always try to be safe and I've never slept with more than one person at the same time...they've always been very spaced out. So what do you when you are caught up in the moment with someone and want to go home with them? Do you just tell them that you are currently seeing other people and make sure it's okay? (even if none of the others have gotten serious yet) Or do you restrict yourself to only one really intimate partner? I don't think I'm a polyamarous/polygamy kind of gal, although I've never tried. Since I am only in this town for 2 months and am living half way across the world, most of the men are aware that I'm not looking for marriage at this point and since we met on OKCupid it should be assumed that I have been talking to other men...
So when it gets to that moment with the first man who you may want to "go all the way with", What do you say and do? And then what do you tell the other ones you are going on dates with after this night occurred?
Stories/advice/anything would be great!