||[Sep. 8th, 2012|09:31 am]
The Question Club
if one of your close friends is with a significant other who you just plain didnt like / didnt think was good for them, what do you think is your responsibility as a friend regarding this? do you tell them? do you cut them out of your life? do you shut up?|
one of my friends didnt like my SO, but instead of telling me, she treated him outright rudely. it really upset me i almost cried when i took them both out for lunch. she implied he was cheap, was worthless, etc. during lunch, right in front of me. she actually said the words "why do you want to share a cab with me and not pay for the whole fare? i thought *SO's nationality* people were rich, aren't you rich? or are you just cheap?" :/ along with other things she did, i decided to cut her out.
when i confronted her about her rudeness, she said she didnt realise she was being rude.