|Need your advice
||[May. 1st, 2012|04:10 pm]
The Question Club
I have this FB friend, who I originally met through TQC. We hung out a couple times in real life, before she moved to Houston for family reasons. I didn't get to know her that well, but we got along decent enough. We kept in touch here and there through email. Several months after she left, she stated that she had lost a lot of weight. She then started hitting on me, making sexual advances that would be acted upon when she moved back to LA. She even sent me photographs of her in her underwear. All of this unsolicited. I never encouraged her or flirted back really. I was never interested in her romantically, and it little to do with her weight. We just didn't connect in that way. Because she was in Texas until she graduated, and I was in LA, I felt that I didn't have to really address that problem right away.|
A couple days ago, she shot me a message in FB. She's in LA and she wants to meet up. Hmm. Did not know that was happening so soon. She's probably going to make more sexual advances on me. I don't really want to bang her, partly because there's another girl I've been seeing here and there. But we're not romantically involved (yet), so it's not like I can really use that as a get-out-of-nookie card.
My whole life, women I haven't been interested in have hit on me, and I've never been good at shooting them down. I generally just avoid them until they get the hint or lose interest, and I've thought about doing that with the Houston girl, but I'm a little too old to be playing that lame high school shit. So, that being said, what can I say to get out of this without hurting her feelings?