||[Mar. 17th, 2012|02:00 am]
The Question Club
What do you do when you love someone and want a future with them, but they're a drug addict? Do you stick around "for better or worse"? Or do you up and leave? Do you stick by them no matter what and try to help them get better or run away? |
He's not that bad. I could handle it, if it didn't hurt me emotionally when he does it. Its a small amount every couple weeks. Am I blowing it outta proportion? Maybe I'm too sensitive to the issue, maybe 2 pills every two weeks isnt a big deal. Or is it? .... Who knows.
I really see a future with this guy, and I've never truly wanted a future with anyone. I dont know what to do. I wanna be the loving supporting girlfriend, but every time he does it, it kills me on the inside. He's trying to get better, but always says he's never promised to never do it again. He wont commit to quitting, just wants to do it less. Is that enough? At what point is popping pills a problem you need to walk away from? He's sweet to me, we love each other, we want a life together. Do I leave all that over a lousy 4 pills a month? I feel like such a girl, like I'm just overreacting.
And because I have my own addictions (not to drugs), does that mean I'm just a big hypocrite?
I'm so confused, I love him, I want to be with him, I miss him a crazy amount when hes not home. I just dont know what to do. I dont know if I should give it all up because he wont commit to quitting fully. Am I supposed to give him time to quit? Time to slow down his habit and maybe eventually he'll quit all together? or Assume hes like every other druggie and just give up on him?