||[Feb. 28th, 2012|08:10 am]
The Question Club
Please tell me if I am being unreasonable or not.|
I share an apartment with another girl, whom I love. She is dating a guy who spends a lot of time here. He's okay -- I'm not really a fan but not because he's a bad guy, but because our personalities are way different, and not very compatible.
He's irritated me in the past because he has eaten my food, and then tried to convince my roommate and I to have a "food contract" in which everyone's food is fair game, which was really a weird way of basically justifying eating my food. I kind of brushed it off as a just a single rude thing.
Well, there's three bathrooms in this apartment. One downstairs, one in my roommate's room, and one that I use. I just got home from work, and she's gone but her boyfriend was in her room sleeping. I don't know if he realised I was home -- the door to my room was cracked because the cats were walking in and out of here to see me. All of a sudden he walks out of his room, into my bathroom, and pees in my bathroom with the door open.
I know, it is a bathroom, but come the fuck on. Why is he peeing in there when there's a toilet in his room? And I had suspicions that he's been doing it, because there was piss on the seat last weekend when I clean it and I don't pee standing up because I have a condition called a vagina.
Do I have a right to be frustrated? Should I say something to my roommate? I keep all my embarrassing girly shit in there, I don't like the idea that he comes in there specifically to shit and piss when he could do it in his girlfriend's.