||[Sep. 26th, 2011|07:02 am]
The Question Club
Totally NOT Hypothetical:|
I have been having this awful debacle with my ex-boyfriend about him returning about $400 worth of my books that he has. No matter how much hemming and hawwing I do and try to figure out, I never ever get my books back.
Today he called me and got very very upset with me over it, in turn making me upset. He wanted to just come and bring them and I told him that would be fine if he brought a friend with him. I didn't even care if it was someone I didn't know.
He gets really upset about it, like I've offended him for even asking. I explained to him I didn't feel comfortable with being with him just alone (he's still obsessed/in love with me, even though he's the one who broke it off). He got really upset and told me he wouldn't talk to me again until I got my "shit straightened out." He then told me he was seeing me today "no matter what"
I'm legit concerned he's going to show up, but I'm not exactly sure what to do.
He's emotionally abusive and just not someone who is good to be around, especially for someone like me (mental and physical diseases, eating disorder, etc etc), and I really, <i>really</i> do not feel safe being near him by himself at this point in time.
So my question is, do I call the cops NOW to give them a heads up, or do I wait until he potentially shows up? Or do I do something else?
I'm so confused and upset and I just don't know anymore.