||[May. 1st, 2011|12:24 pm]
The Question Club
Sorry this is so tl;dr. D:
I need some relationship advice, sort of. My boyfriend and I recently split up, and since the break up, there have been two guys I've kind of talked to.
I've worked with Guy #1 for a year now, and we've always talked at work, but about a month ago, he started dropping hints that he was interested. He kept asking me to hang out, texted me all day, blahblahblah. He kept this up for two or so weeks until I finally got some free time and we were able to hang out. He kissed me, he told me he was really excited to hang out with me again and get to know me more, and then he stopped talking to me. I asked him what the deal was, and he was like, "I'm a nice guy, I'm not looking to fuck everything that walks, I think you got the wrong impression." And he hasn't talked to me since.
Guy #2 I've met a few times because we have some mutual friends, but I hadn't seen him in a few years. We started texting one night and he was like, "Hey, I'm going for a drive, want to come with?" and we ended up driving around and talking for nearly three hours. He said he wanted to hang out again as soon as possible, we made plans for next week, but then he started texting me asking for n00dz. I kind of just told him he can wait until we're in person and see what happens, and now he's basically ignoring me. He, too, claims to be a nice guy who "isn't like that" and isn't just trying to get some ass.
I'm not really sure what to do. In your opinion, oh wise TQC, what seems to have happened here? D: What should I do? Make life decisions for me, plz.
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